My Connections to Play

“Play builds the kind of free-and-easy, try-it-out, do-it-yourself character that our future needs.” ~ James L. Hymes Jr. (child development specialist, author)

“Children learn as they play. Most importantly, in play children learn how to learn.” ~ O. Fred Donaldson (martial arts master)

There were many toys in my childhood that I remember fondly. Some of the toys were the A-framed house, Simon, and my Lite Bright. I can recall many hours of playing with the toys with my brother and sister. There were many laughs and some frustrating times playing with these toys. My parents encouraged playtime. I came from a family of 5 children so we were lucky enough to have many toys. Some of the toys were our own personal toys, and some were for all of us. During our play, we enjoyed our time as a family and strengthened our relationships. My parents were always there to help us get along and stop many arguments. I will always remember how much my dad loved to play Simon with us. We always beat him, but I am not sure whether he intended this or not.

Play is changing today. When I was young, we played outside with our friends, and I cannot remember ever missing an opportunity to go outside. Today, I see children more attached to electronic devices. Many children play through online interactions and not face-to-face. It is sad to see a child picking up an iPad over an actual toy. When I visit my nephews and niece, we always try to play a board game. They are so excited and actually enjoy the time.

Play plays an important role in life. Play allows us to learn how to use our imagination, problem solving, and develop relationships. In my life, play was always important because it was very enjoyable and gave me an outlet to express my creativity. Play has allowed me to build connections with people and develop relationships. I enjoy talking to family and friends about times in the past.  Our experiences have helped build bonds too.